I didn’t know Megan Dix, but felt
like I did.
Her friends and family all to a
person say Dix was a great daughter, wife, mother and coworker. That’s what
made the Lyndonville mom’s murder so unsettling – she was any one of us; a
good-natured, high-character person always trying to do her best for those
around her.
It was sickening how she was cut
down randomly for no logical reason whatsoever a week short of her 34th
birthday. It reminds you how short our life is on this planet, because anything
-- and this proves anything -- can happen to you or someone you love.
Likewise, I didn’t know Holly Colino
(the suspect in Dix’s murder) but felt like I could have.
While we all don’t know people who
could coldly kill like Colino had been alleged to, there’s a good chance we
know someone battling mental illness like she has been.
You wouldn’t know that, though,
because it’s almost become taboo for anyone battling it (or caring for someone
with it) to talk about it, for fear of embarrassment or ostracization. It comes
in many forms, from body image issues to depression to schizophrenia and it is
more common than many think – in any given year, almost 1 in 5 American adults
battles mental illness.
That doesn’t and shouldn’t give
Colino a free pass for what she may have done. I, for one, am against all
(dis)qualifiers for guilt of murder and rape; if some committed a heinous act
while insane or feeble of mind, they’re just as guilty in my book as someone
who knew better (and who’s to say that the insane person didn’t know better?).
But, this is just another in a long
line of cases where society failed people like Colino and, in turn, innocents
like Dix. By abandoning the ill, we’ve put others in harm’s way.
How did no one address Colino’s
serious mental health issues with all of the warning signs that were out there?
If you feel like peering into the
mind of a confused soul, check out Colino’s Facebook page, Blogger posts, and
YouTube videos. They are incoherent, dangerous, and frightening. And they are
all screaming for help.
How did that go unchecked? We have
countless government agents who mine social media for terrorists. We have a
federal artificial intelligence system that scans emails and the internet for
threats. Facebook users regularly turn-in to administrators others who post
overly-political or allegedly-hateful comments.
Yet, none of those powers or people
raised a flag and said, “get this girl some help” or “lock her up.” There were
Facebook users who even interacted with her unsafely who failed to inform
authorities of the bizarre behavior and threats they experienced.
And, more so, where was society for
the good of Colino and the greater good of the population?
It all starts with getting people
the help they need, even if it requires being institutionalized or
hospitalized.
In the 1970s it became the in-thing
to close institutions once known as “insane asylums” due to a rash of such
organizations mistreating their patients and the continued development of
psychiatric drugs (never mind that those drugs create their own problems).
Sure, there were plenty of real
world examples of “One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest” but many hospitals did
wonders in helping get people cured or giving them a consistent, comfortable
environment in which they could manage their illnesses and their lives.
There are still some psychiatric institutions
in operation, but far too few. Mental health experts say there is a 95 percent
decline in mental hospital beds since 1960, even though there are many more
people who deserve that level of help.
And help is what they need. Help.
Safety. Comfort. Rehabilitation. Asylum.
Yet, they haven’t been getting it
nor will they anytime soon.
Our modern medical system treats
mental illness like the so-called redheaded stepchild. New hospitals and health
campuses are being erected across the country at spectacular rates and they are
being handsomely funded by taxpayer dollars, but the focus is always on
physical health. No one is interested in making multi-bed facilities for the
mentally ill.
That’s too bad, because people like
Holly Colino are being ignored. A just and moral society takes care of the
people who need it, even if they don’t seem to be exactly like one of us.
When we abandon that calling, when
it comes to hard cases like hers or the infamous Adam Lanza we inadvertently
put innocents like Megan Dix or the little kids who were gunned down at Sandy
Hook in harm’s way. When it comes to the better cases, we are robbing the ill
of the best mainstream existence possible.
Help the sick and you help
society.
Ignore them, and you hurt them….and
potentially every one of us.
From the 04 Sept 2017 Greater Niagara Newspapers